"Ruby
and Homer showed us the letter you wrote to them. They were very pleased to think you wrote to
them and I am sure they appreciate it so very much. They lamented the fact that it would be
almost impossible to answer all of their letters immediately, at least, because
they had received one-hundred fifty letters since Jack's death."
-- Letter from
my grandmother, Bloomington, Kans., to my father, Boulder, Colorado, November 24,
1944. My father's boyhood friend, Jack
Seal, had been killed in action near Bologna, Italy, on October 16. Ruby and Homer were his parents. He was part of the gang of four boys, all
born in 1925, that were best friends growing up in Bloomington. All four served in the military in World War
II. All but Jack survived the war and
lived to be old men. In my father’s
memoir, he wrote “Jack had the best personality of any of us. He was handsome, friendly, and buoyant. Life was just beginning when it was cut short
at nineteen.”
In a 2007 letter, my father
wrote about how Jack’s mother learned of her son’s death: “Homer and Ruby Seal ran the Bloomington
Store across from the schoolhouse. Ruby
spotted the postman, probably Arnie Kistler (Beryl Folk’s father-in-law),
approaching the school at an unusual hour in the afternoon. She breathed a sigh of relief thinking that
his delivery of a telegram was for someone else. The postman, however, had merely gone to the
school to recruit a delegation of women (who were meeting there) to accompany
him as he entered the store. ‘Is it
Jack?,’ Ruby asked. ‘Yes, it is,’
replied Sally Davenport. Scenes in Ken
Burn’s ‘War,’ now on PBS, are reminiscent of that event.
“Edward King and I were both
home on leave when memorial services were held for Jack at Dunsford Funeral
Home. Jack’s Dad whose heart was surely
breaking at the loss of his only son, told us in a friendly voice, ‘Jack isn’t
here, but I am sure glad his buddy’s could come.’ Later, my folks brought Homer and Ruby to
Stillwater, Oklahoma, where we were living, for a family visit. We had four children growing up. Later, Ruby wrote to say, ‘I saw how it might
have been if Jack had lived.’”